part of your problem is the 034 upper mounts. They’re worse quality than stock with no real improvement in stiffness. They’re likely your problem. Replace those with BFI stage 1s, or CP-E rubber stage 1s
I sorted the dogbone out before installing the engine/trans mounts, first trying an 034 insert (pretty much immediately bent), HPA (wild NVH & multiple failed/ripped pucks, ended up returning for refund), Revo (failed/ripped puck after about a couple months), then the current Powerflex Hybrid with Roc-Euro arm (which has held up perfectly for 3.5 years), which has been far better than the other options I tried.
After settling on that, I then installed the now older-style 034 engine/trans mounts (cost about $250 vs $650 for BFI), which did help some with wheelhop, and if anything I felt like the NVH ever so slightly decreased versus the stock ones, which were replaced @ 8K miles and were still in good shape. So, the 034's aren't the NVH problem, and so far have had them on for 3.5 years with no issues. I'm not an 034 apologist/fanboy, and yeah there are certainly better mounts out there (which may or may not increase NVH, and are quite a bit more expensive), but the 034's were definitely were an improvement over stock, even if it was just slightly.
I've seen a few reports of 034 failures but maybe I'm one of the lucky ones. Also I'm not looking to go all out with the car, since it's just a daily driven street car. From what I've experienced, basically all of the vibes came from changing out dogbone bushings.
If I were to do it all again, or if my 034's end up shitting the bed in the future (knock on wood), then maybe I'd consider spending the extra for BFI mounts, but I'm content with the 034s for now. I wouldn't be too keen on rolling the dice and spending $650+ (plus spending the time to swap them out) for likely little to no decrease, and possibly an increase, in NVH. As annoying as the vibes can sometimes be with the A/C on, they really aren't that intense and I'm probably just being sensitive to them, so I've got used to it and learned to live with it.