I'm just speaking from experience.. The EJ25 was very good to me!
I can't see spending hundreds, maybe over $1000, to fly home on short notice, and rent a car. Then fly back 1000 miles, to turn around and drive home 1000 miles, that just sounds nutty to me... I just hate that they are leaving me hanging, no timeline... But I do start a new job in 9 days, so I just might have to fly back. Hurry up VW!!!
Quick update - I spoke with the dealership again, and they insisted my car still has the APR tune on it. They said it's there on my ECU, but it's turned off. That the dealership who made it stock again, might have did something wrong... I told them, throw in a new turbo, take it for a drive, and you will see it's not tuned... They said they were contacted by the district rep, but they still didn't know when he will be looking at the car.
The tune might be there - the first dealership that "fixed" the turbo might have set it to the "stock" APR tune, which is not the same thing as a true stock ECU. They might also only be looking at the TD1 issue and since it's flagged they simply use that to say it's "still" tuned.