inb4 "I thought you were gonna lower it", "not low", "did you forget to install the coilovers", etc
Finally wrapped up installation in the front. I followed sage advice and hit it with my purse, specifically I took my purse to Harbor Freight and picked up a ratcheting 3/8" breaker bar that inspires a little more confidence than my other tools. Using the leverage of other pieces I was able to get the 90° turns on the wheel bearing hardware, though now I think I fucked myself up. Also torqued the axle nuts to 52 ft-lbs + 90° as I have a shouldered 12 point 24mm bolt and not the 6 point hex, hopefully that's correct (but there's still plenty to do before it's all back together).
edit: Looks like 200nm/147.5 ft-lbs + 180° is correct as my axle bolt is smooth. Tomorrow I'll pull the center caps and torque the axle bolts correctly before starting on the rear, because the last thing I want is to forget
Control arms are a little above parallel with the ground so I think geometry is still alright, but I got down to ~14" from the bottom of the center of the fender arch to the centerpoint of the wheel hub. Once it settles I may go the slightest bit lower, but the big decider is going to be how it feels on the road.
If it's not awful outside tomorrow I may start on the rear end, if anyone is ever reading this way down the line I found a silly cheat code that helps is to reuse your old hardware to get everything in place, then install new hardware once everything else is in place. Ball joint nuts need to be done with everything on the ground as does the axle nut, but it's not hard to reach with a little creativity.
I miss driving this car, and will greatly look forward to getting the rear done so I can get it inspected and back on the road for the springtime.