Hoping someone can help me urgently. I am installing the rocket wire puddle kit into my car and I have had the hardest time removing the two wires/connectors from the white plug. The first one was a nightmare and I could tell the bendable metal part of the connector got stuck inside the plastic white connector and it would not come off, eventually I pulled it a little firmer and it broke off the bendable metal part, and I was able to plug that into the male part of the rocket kit. The second one I was way more careful and it broke off on the second pull. The metal part of the connector is now stuck inside the white plug and I cannot freaking remove the thing. As to the wire, this is what it looks like currently.
Two questions, suggestions on removing the metal part (see pic)? And also, not knowing anything about wiring, is it safe to plug the purple wire as it is (see pic) into female wire connector of the kit, or should I find a wire connector to patch that? Thanks in advance!!