Oil temp seems to start displaying at 122* F, so why does it wait until 122*? VW surely could have programmed it to start at ambient temperature.
Rant start: I never heard of needing to wait for anything in the car to "warm up" since the days of carburetors, and that was so you didn't dump too much raw fuel into the cylinders and past the rings to the oil pan. Tends to destroy main bearings. All I ever heard or read was to wait until the oil is circulating, which only takes seconds. You're probably getting at least 40 PSI from the oil pump, the same you get out of your home's water hose.
With modern fuel injection, your enrichment cycle is very short. My idle drops to normal by the time I pull out of my driveway (start car in garage, open garage door, back out of garage, wait until door closes). I'm sure I have full oil circulation by then, and the oil is performing at 5-weight. I need to drive about a mile to get to a main road, then I often give it about 1/2-3/4 throttle. The car pins you back in the seat so I'm getting a lot of torque, and stress. I never had an drivetrain problem from driving this way, and I've been driving turbo cars since 1991. I always had a turbo with an oil and water-cooled center bearing. We're not in the dark age of Chrysler any more.
Feel free to argue otherwise, but how many times have you heard a story where someone broke an engine from not warming up the car in the last 10 years, or even 20 or 30? And what about the clutch or clutch-pack? That's where I'd be worrying if I didn't have a HD clutch or DSG tune. Of course, if you're tuned you have no warranty, but if you need to drive like a pussy, don't tune, or buy something that's faster from the factory, like a Camaro or Mustang. When you play with fire, you sometimes get burned. Keep a first-aid kit (lots of money) handy.