You're right, my post left some assumptions there.
What I should have said was - "You may want to try with the ignition in the accessory position"
The ignition switch has three different positions - 1. completely off, 2. accessory mode, 3. engine systems running
Pressing the start/stop button one time without your foot on the brake or clutch would put the ignition system into the accessory position. All accessories including lights, radio, windows, basically anything electronic will become operational just without the engine running. I'm sure you know this, but I'm explaining to be clear. This way, the valve motor and ECU are communicating when you unplug the motor, and I believe this will trigger a reset of the valve motor.
There is a chance the car knows that a valve motor has been unplugged even with the ignition in the "off" position, but I don't remember if this is the case. This would mean that a reset of the valves would be triggered even if the car wasn't in the accessory position. Maybe someone smarter than me can validate. I had to mess with the valves for awhile to get them working again. Was a series of unplugging & re-plugging with the ignition in different positions before I finally got them working again. You can prob even do it with the engine running.