Being somewhat new to VW, I need to ask... Are VW struts especially fragile or is the community just very weary of running aftermarket springs with stock struts? I've ran modest lowering springs on a lot of my previous vehicles (I've also ran various coilovers too) with no issues. Yes, they will shorten the life of the oem strut, but they aren't going to blow them out within a couple hundred miles.
I had my STI lowered on RCE Yellows for 40k miles and never had any issues.
I've also driven vehicles with coilovers that drove rougher on the street than a car with just springs. I've also driven a car with top of the line coils that was lowered 2+" and felt very smooth over bumps. I guess my point is, a very minimal drop spring (~1") will get rid of some wheel gap, improve handling a bit, add a slightly harsher ride over bumps and uneven surfaces, and might require factory struts to be replaced sooner. I think that is what Eibach and these other spring manufacturers mean when they say "can work with (or tested with) OEM dampers." It's common knowledge that there is a trade-off. The lower the drop, the shorter the strut life and harsher the ride.
Right now, for me and my needs, spending ~$200 on springs + $80 or so on replacement bearings and hardware to do the install myself is a much better options than dropping $1500-$2500 on a decent set of coilovers.