so use the remote only when you want to deadlock the car = most secure option. When you do not want most secure then use the key... saves the 'do I need to press once or twice to set deadlock' quandary ...
I realise that it's easy to use the plipper correctly once you know the sequence and it's my own fault I didn't read the manual and assumed I was deadlocking when i wasn't, just pissed with myself really! Time for a beer or two !!