I just put in the BFI stage 2 insert recently. First start was a little jarring but after just a little drive around town it calmed down, and then even more since then. You can hear a bit more drivetrain noise overall (engine, a little trans whine), sounds pretty good when getting on it actually. Volume wise i'd compare it to soundaktor on sport mode while driving in normal mode.
Downshifts feel a bit quicker and the engine definitely rocks less when shifting. I also have a broadview mirror and it shakes a whole lot at idle with the AC on. I have also noticed a vibration that happens around 900 rpm, whether taking off from a stop or just free revving. So taking off (with AC off) is like 800rpm (smooth) > 900rpm (quick judder) > 1000rpm (smooth again). Starting the engine sounds much meatier and more satisfying. And reverse is pretty bad, not going to lie. There is a big judder everytime you hit the clutch bite point. But I only reverse 1x per day for the most part so it doesn't bother me. The reason I went with the stage 2 is that it seems weird to reinforce on the bottom portion of the mount, which leads to the mount actually rotating when its stressed (watch 034 motorsports video on why they developed the upper insert). Didn't want that and was willing to deal with the nvh (or rip it out and sell it or eat the $40).
Oh and wheel hop wise I haven't encountered any since the install, but my car has stock power and pilot AS3+ and its 90deg here every day so thats probably not a good metric.