Dude there's nothing wrong.
These cars keep the coolant still (zero flow) to warm up faster in certain conditions. This affects oil as a byproduct as well. I know this with certainty due to changing the coolant temp strategy in my own tune.
Here is a video detailing the heat management strategy on these cars:
There is nothing that restricts oil flow to change temps - it's affected by cooler or hotter coolant in the oil-coolant heat exchanger.
Coolant temps are basically temperature difference and speed based. If you drive faster, it will target a lower temp. If it's colder out, it will target a higher temp. The ECU targets the lower of either 2 tables. Oil temp changes a bit depending on load and relative coolant temps.
If your oil isn't going over 230F in normal driving (which is like worst case scenario in the heat of summer with a bit of tomfoolery in traffic) there's absolutely nothing wrong. I see 270F for 15-20min at a time when it's being beaten on track. There's nothing to worry about.
Also FYI the cluster is pretty accurate and seem it can be trusted once you're between 130-280F . I went down a rabbit hole of finding out if oil temps can be trusted or not about 6mo ago:
Post in thread 'DerHase's 2019 GTI Rabbit Edition: HPDE shenanigans'
https://golfmk7.com/forums/index.ph...-edition-hpde-shenanigans.401435/post-7916493
As stated above by
@tmw2442 , coolant temp on the dash is a dummy gauge. Bottom line if it's not reading hot you're fine though.