What wheels did you get and where did you get them from? Are you using spacers? Very odd the stock lug bolts wouldn't be long enough.
Easy, put bolt in OEM wheel, measure how much it sticks out the rear of wheel. Then put bolt in new wheel, measure how far it stick out of rear if at all................
Say for example the OEM bolt in OEM wheel sticks out 15mm & on new wheel it sticks out 5mm. You need to get new bolt which is 10mm longer than OEM bolt.............
Bought them used. They are 1000 Miglia aftermarket alloys, not factory VW wheels.
The wheels I have use ball type seat like the factory wheels