You car looks great, brother! I did Eibach Sportline lowering springs (about 2" drop) and actually added 10mm spacers in the rear. Spacers aren't on in the photo. Also have a Neuspeed rear sway bar (I think 25mm). Once the ride gets too harsh over time, I'll switch to a full coilover.
Your wheels look great, and don't look small. But your style has a lot of bulk in the center compared to the CH-R. All personal pref though, and your car is dope. I went cheapo and just got a GTI S. So no limited slip or cool headlights.
I think the main diff with the CH-R is the carve-out on the inner-side of the spokes (if that makes sense). Adds some dimension.
Nice ride!