The airbags don't care, but if they are relying on the b-pillar for 'support', I can see the logic. A solution would be for Op to move airbags from 2-dr car seat to R seats to get the correct airbag for the 2-dr car. Definitely would require some finesse to make that happen.
As for wiring, I suspect the airbag sensor and actuating wiring/connectors will be the same. Most companies don't spend a lot of money to redesign small stuff like this. But would require looking at the R manual and the Golf wiring diagrams to be sure. The airbag computer will also run a diagnostic as soon as the car is powered and will output a fault if wiring is incorrect.
The only other items would be wiring for the powered portion of the seat and the seat heaters. I bet the slots exist in the fuse panel, just need to pull the appropriate wires/fuses and install switches for the heaters.
The airbag system is very finicky as we've learned from the Takata debacle. In my office garage we have a couple of cars in the basement where airbags went off improperly due to a mod.
Nobody (including the manufacturer) knows what will happen if a different seat is put in the car. The system may say "everything is OK, carry on" or it may say "Houston, we have a problem, don't deploy the seat airbag"
Swapping seats isn't as easy as it used to be.
Let's assume that the front passenger is badly injured or killed (I'm not even talking about anyone who may be in the back and can't get out). There is an investigation and the manufacturer, state police and NHTSA send somebody out to see why the injury occurred. Do you really think the insurance company is going to cover that if it turns out that you put a car from a 4dr into a 2dr?
There are some unintended consequences that affect only you and then there are some that affect others.
NOBODY can tell you how the airbag system will work. The dealership can't tell you (although they'll say don't do it), the internet can't (although they'll say "just do it") and neither can the manufacturer (except that they'll flag your car. This is probably one of the things that can actually void your warranty).