FINAL UPDATE:
I took the car to discount tire to make sure that the dealership didn't remove the hub rings and or change my bolts, as I no longer trust the dealerships.
Got to discount, told them that I wanted them to check the balancing, make sure the wheels are not warped or bent, bolts were cone seats, check to see if I still had hub rings, and to re-balance the tires WITH the after waiting 2 hours I got my car back.
To sum it up, the bolts that got installed when I first got my wheels put on by discount WERE in fact cones. However, the dealership did NOT balance my tires correctly, and did not balance them with the hub rings on. 3 of the 4 tires were balanced incorrectly, according to the discount tire rep. They did all the work for free at discount, at the dealership I paid roughly $400 for them to screw it up. I wonder if I can get my money back? I got a re-balance, road force balance, and alignment at the dealer.
Now after like 6 months, I can finally drive at 80mph with no vibration!!