Willow,
Personally I have never heard of anyone chrome plating an entire exhaust system, usually they will chrome plate exhaust tips as that is what most people only see, and I don't think plating would hold up well on an exhaust. Looks to be you have the 304 stainless which has retained much of it's polish nicely, however I am also not familiar with Invidia?
Yes, 409/410 can begin to look like sh!t rather quickly, however unlike mild steel, 400 grade stainless when it oxidizes actually creates somewhat of a protective effect to inhibit further oxidation so rust perforation will not happen for a very long time.
I'm somewhat torn as I do like new, show car fresh bits, however I actually don't prefer 304 as it has an ever so slightly higher note, is slightly less malleable and therefore has a slightly higher risk of cracking/breaking especially at welds, stress points, hangers etc, and some manufacturers will use too thin a gauge which while is lighter, enhances all the negative aspects of this metal.
At the end of the day all I'm saying is do research before buying any company's design. Ask the gauge thickness, all metal types used (some mix and match), warranties expressed or implied, and what suits your needs best.
Cheers!