I drive manual Golf, Jettas, GTI's and GLI's everyday, granted most are new or relatively new, they are VERY easy to drive, they are VERY consistent, positive and progressive, VERY easy to modulate.....
I still think OP needs to find a girlfriend who either already knows how to drive a stick, or can pick it up quicker than OP...
I sold a manual Jetta to a girl last week, her mom drove the car home for her and she came by less than a week later and was driving it like a champ...
OP should sell the car and buy a Hyundai with a CVT...