Thanks for the security code!
I've pasted pics below to show you guys I'm not crazy! I really don't have 'extended electronic differential lock' as an option inside 03 ABS. So after looking around I found that in my car 'no display' is the option for me to change the XDS settings. My car drives so well after changing it to strong. I wonder if anyone else has issues like I do.
Same thing on mine. You're not alone!