I have Eibach Pro-Kit. To be honest, I threw them on after having the car for 3 days, but I never was able to tell any huge difference in how the car felt, comfort wise. From what I know about H&R and the differences in spring rates, the Eibach should be a little more comfortable than the H&R.
Just go with VWR lowering springs and keep your stock shocks. Ride is very close to stock and will give you a lowered ride height. I had them on my Golf and GTI. For what you're looking for, best bang for the buck.