I honestly don't see much hating, but sounds are completely subjective, emotive and very polarised.
Personally, I like the pops and bangs, hence my next car may well be the RS3, but any sound/power/looks must be factory standard. (modding is not for me)
I think you summed it up perfectly. I too feel as though my next car needs to have it standard, especially as I'll probably lease it. I also agree that the Rs3 is probably the only car that calls me at present within reasonably even stretched budget. I also seem keen on the new 2018 GT mustang, with the new 10 sp trans, updated interior and performance and obviously the looks and exhaust note!