Just a quick update...
Took the car back in a week after they cleared the code. It was raining again that week, and the awd was clearly not working. All the usual symptoms. I dropped the car off on a rainy day, and they were able to replicate I guess. I had mentioned that possibly it was a good time to change the Haldex fluid (car was about 28k mi last week) and possibly inspect the pump at the same time. They followed my lead, and ended up replacing the pump, fluid, etc. and then claimed the car drove great and was all fixed! Sweet! Until I got the car back and had the same issues as before. Fail.
The good news is the horrid cavitation noise it was making is gone. So it sounds like the pump was clogged or not getting the proper amount of fluid BEFORE the pump replacement (speculation on my part). But when I was driving home from the dealer, I had to stop on a very steep incline before I turned left at a stop light. Light turns green, and car practically stood still as the RPMS built. Clearly awd is not working. So back to the dealer this week. I got some sort of nut ballz flu this week, so I have been laid up for days recovering. I hope tomorrow to get an apt. at my dealer and see what else they can find.
My guess at this point is the failure goes something like this....
1. Pump clogs/fails causing weak or no clamping force on the rear diff clutch plates when rquested.
2. Clutch plates torch themselves just like a poorly engaging DRIVE clutch, destroying the clutches even further (just like a slipping drive clutch that is old, etc. I picture a new driver slipping the clutch poorly, high rpms, lots of burnt clutch smell, etc).
3. VW dealer goes through process, replacing the pump first. Clutch packs are now getting proper clamping force, but clutch packs are fried, so it doesn't matter if the system is working. New clutch packs/rear diff needed.
I know that is petty simplified, but it seems to make sense. VW also replaces the Haldex control module in many cases, as I believe there was a bad version early in the build process.
Soooo, off to the dealer again to see what they can do. A bummer really because I ADORE this car. When awd works. I am a bit worried moving forward that will happen AGAIN in 20k miles. Lets hope not!
Cheers!
josh